chemo, shmeemo.

This is my husband, Daryl. He recently had a lobe of lung removed with a stage 1B cancerous tumor. Luckily it was caught early. As a “precaution” he has been “advised” to undergo a few sessions of lovely chemotherapy. I captured the first real smile from him during a walk outside in glorious weather (he didn’t have much energy to do the walk in the first place).

We both know of the fragility of life, but we also realize there are much more difficult struggles and battles waged by this vicious disease by so many. We never realized just how prevalent and destructive it is.

As a “survivor of second-hand” chemo (my term for those that sit with chemo patients during infusions), I empathize with those that deal with loved ones. Your day to day struggle is real as well.

Never underestimate the power of that smile.

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4 thoughts on “chemo, shmeemo.

  1. Cee Neuner April 23, 2016 / 11:32 am

    His smile is contagious. Your both are dear hearts. Speedy recovery.

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  2. heretherebespiders April 23, 2016 / 7:01 pm

    Ah, dammit. Best of wishes for many more smiles in the future – he does have a nice one! Can see why you fell in love with him.
    I’m dealing with being the spouse of a kidney patient all of a sudden, and yeah I know what you mean about being surprised about how many others are going through the same nightmare. No one should have to see their best beloved become so ill. It sucks.

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  3. thepetalpusher April 23, 2016 / 10:11 pm

    Good to “see” Darryl again. I know you can keep his spirits up with your love and quick wit.

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